The Center for Strategic Communications has tips for waiting families at the front. Here are some tips.

If you see someone struggling, ask them for help. “How can I help?” Ask how their day was. This is the best way to show you’re there for them.

You can also talk about a movie or book to distract yourself. Make sure to bring up relevant topics.

Ask the person to talk. Let them talk about how they feel. Don’t interrupt or advise unless asked.

People often just need to be listened to.